Deformational Plagiocephaly. That is the technical term for my infant son Leroy’s flat spot. It is also the reason that he is now going to wear a helmet 23 hours a day, 7 days a week for the next 3 months. When I found out he would be needing a helmet for a flat spot, I sat down and did what I always do when faced with the unknown: I researched as much as I possibly could. While I found a lot of medical information, I wanted more personal stories. So now that my baby is comfortably in his helmet, I wanted to share our story, the information we have learned so far, and answer some of the questions I had before we got the helmet.
When we went in for Leroy’s 2 month checkup, the doctor noticed that he had a flat spot and told us to do as much tummy time as we could to help it. I wasn’t too worried about it because when my daughter was a baby, the same thing happened. She had a flat spot at her 2 month checkup, we pushed tummy time, and when we went back for her 4 month checkup, it had sorted itself out.
See, as a Montessori mama, I try not to strap my babies into seats too often. Yes, Leroy would occasionally sit in the swing and obviously he had to be in a car seat when we went places. But otherwise I try to just give him time to explore on the floor. I figured I’d just be extra vigilant in pushing tummy time and it would also sort itself out. I even had him lay on the boppy when he was on his back (and supervised) thinking at least it had a little more give than the hard floor.
Except it didn’t. Well, part of it did. The part of his head that he actually laid on rounded out, but the biggest chunk of his flat spot was high enough on his head that it was unaffected by the amount of tummy time. When we went to his 4 month appointment, his pediatrician noticed it was still there and asked my opinion if it was getting better.
And I had to be honest and say that no, I didn’t think it was getting better. The flat bit wasn’t still flat because it was being laid on. It was just the way his head was currently shaped. Tummy time wasn’t going to make it better.
So our pediatrician recommended that we have Leroy assessed at Gillette Children’s Hospital to see if a helmet would be the right way to go.
We went to our evaluation appointment and after they took a look and measured his head, they recommended we get a helmet. We were measured that same day and two weeks later (or three days before I’m writing this) we had the helmet fitted and took it home.
Let me just pause for a moment and tell you that I never thought I would have a baby that needed a helmet. I was even a bit judgmental, thinking that babies in helmets were caused by parents who continually left their baby strapped into chairs, swings, car seats, etc. Not that these parents meant any harm, but they just didn’t know. And I did know better, so I thought it would never be something I had to deal with. But then I found myself in the position of having a baby who needed a helmet for a flat spot.
Have you ever had something like that? I didn’t realize I was judgmental in that way until it happened to me. And not I feel bad for any parent of a helmet baby that I’ve ever judged. But, the most important bit of realizing you are wrong is changing your viewpoint, forgiving yourself, and moving on from it.
I also had the mom guilt emotions. Whenever there is something that happens to your child that is out of your control, it is completely normal to feel guilty. Give yourself some grace and come to terms with the fact that while you couldn’t stop it from happening, you can make a plan to help it get better.
Technically Leroy’s flat spot is called deformational plagiocephaly. There are numerous different reasons that it can show up and not correct itself.
It can happen before birth if baby is in a very low position or if it is a multiple pregnancy with limited space. While I was pregnant with Leroy, he dropped really low, pretty early on. My theory is that his head rested too long against my pelvic bones.
It can also happen after birth. If baby spends a lot of time on their back with their head in the same position, it can cause the flat spot. The reason you see more babies with flat spots and helmets is partially because the AAP now recommends that babies sleep on their back. Obviously, back sleeping is much more important than preventing a flat spot, so please, please continue to put baby to sleep on their back.
When we went in for Leroy’s evaluation, we spent about a half hour with a doctor who questioned us about things like tummy time. Then he measured Leroy’s head.
They used a wooden tool to measure Leroy’s head from different angles. They told us numbers, but I had to do a little research to figure out what they meant. So with plagiocephaly, they measure on the diagonal. (The measurements I am using here is what I was told by the doctor. I’m sure it may vary slightly for other doctors.) If there is a difference of over 6 millimeters between the diagonals, then plagiocephaly is present. If the difference is over 12 millimeters, they are in the severe category. Leroy’s measurement was 18 millimeters.
As I said, we are treating Leroy’s flat spot at Gillette Children’s and they have a helmet they call a CranioCap. We had no idea how they were going to measure for it or what they were going to do. They put a white sleeve thing with a face hole over Leroy’s head and cut small holes so that his ears would stick out and put a small piece of velcro loosely around his neck to make sure it was defined.
Then they stuck a little black electronic cube on top of his head that was a sort of receiver. As I held Leroy on my lap and Andrew tried his hardest to distract Leroy so that he would sit still enough, the technician used a scanner to scan his head. It looked almost like a barcode scanner. She would start at the black cube and scan down his head and as she did it, it populated a model onto the computer screen. It was actually really cool.
4 month olds are wiggly, so we had to actually do it twice before we got a good scan of him. Once the technician determined it was good, we were able to go.
Two weeks after they took the measurements, we went back in to have the helmet fitting. They purposely made the helmet a little bit bigger so that they could fit it to his head. So we spent 40 minutes or so fitting the helmet. We would put the helmet on Leroy and the doctor would look at it from all angles, marking it with a marker in places where he needed to shave it down a bit.
So if it was a bit too long at the neck, the doctor would mark where he wanted to make it smaller and then he would leave and come back to fit it again. It took us about 4 fittings until we got it all fit right. We have another appointment scheduled for a week later to make sure it is all right.
So, I’m sure most of you assumed the same thing I did: that a helmet would be tight and force the head into the desired, rounded shape. WRONG. The helmet itself is actually snug against every area of the head except where the flat spot is. It isn’t tight, but it is snug. The bit over the flat spot is actually slightly bubbled out. See, a baby’s head grows so fast that they simply try to direct that growth to the area that needs it: the flat spot. Isn’t that cool?
When we learned Leroy would need a helmet, there were plenty of things I worried about. Would it bother him? Was it heavy? Would it inhibit his movement? Is it hard to put on or take off? Will it hurt him at all? Do you just put it on one day and not take it off for 3 months? Here are the answers I have so far.
Obviously you don’t want to just put the helmet on and leave it on for the next 23 hours. We had a four-day phase in schedule that we followed. This is what our doctor told us to do. (Obviously, you may have a different sort of phase-in schedule. Make sure to consult with your doctor.)
For the phase-in, I set alarms on my phone to make sure I wouldn’t forget to take the helmet off or put it back on.
Well, now we have Leroy wear the helmet 23/7 and we go to our appointments. The nice thing about the clinic we go to is that they automatically schedule your appointments once you find a time that works for you. We go in one week after the helmet fitting and then every two weeks after that until we are done with the helmet.
Allison | 17th Apr 18
Thank you for sharing your experience! I don’t think I knew enough about flat spots to judge, but I was always curious and going through the internal monolog of, “Don’t stare. But don’t avoid them. Don’t ask questions. She’s got enough to worry about. Just give her your warmest smile and move on.” Glad to hear the helmet isn’t slowing him down!
Mikki | 18th Apr 18
I totally understand! Sometimes it is hard to know how to support the parent without being rude. But now that I’m on the other side, I know that if anyone asked me, I would be happy to tell them what is going on with the helmet 🙂